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i have been busy well for almost a few days , its holiday , i know but i need to handle some things that other people cant. back to my topic.

best friend. anyone wants to define what is bestfriend. i am sure that there are a lot of definition that you all will appeal to say , its actually up to our own self to define what does it mean to us. for me , it hid a very special meaning that everybody is keen to know.

best friend is a friend that is very very close to us and sometimes the things that even our closest family such as our parents does not even know and we tell to our best friend. but , what kind of best friend ? yes , that is the major problems occur in our lives. to whoever reads this aged above 18 , just read it as you have experienced it , okay ?

well , i realise that i'm still young to talk about this matter but for me , i think its important to talk *write i guess* about what i think.

bestfriend for me should be categorised so that you can really know which is the real bestfriend. 

i have a lot of best friend , seriously , a lot ! ones who always there for me , one who is always help me in things that other people cant do. but how do i solve this problem ? i categorised him as my real real best friend. 

sometimes , people who always help you , you straight away take him/her as best friend , but when the time you need help , he/she wont be able to help you. they will come up with many kinds of reasons. so , should we just take someone who only helps us once or twice as a bestfriend ? no. we do not. for me , i need to see what does he/she thinks about me first. whether he/she just think that i'm his/her friend or whatsoever.

here's my experience..

i have this one bestfriend , well , the same birthdate with me. we got to know each other exactly the time when i first enter my boarding school, he was very helpful and we have that chemistry to do things together.

one particular day , it was the examination week i guess , before our trial exam for PMR , he suddenly started to act differently like he never used to. he ignores me a lot , he always ran away from me whenever i pass by him or just walk at the corridor. then , i write a note after the exam and put it on my table.

he read it and quickly throw it away. this problem i reported to the counsellor and this problem been solved by our counsellor.

then , in the month of Ramadhan , we had an argument because of this one particular thing. we never talked to each other for a month , seriously , for a month. then , i started to text him and apologizes of what i've done.

so , the moral of the story is , there are ups and down in best friend relationship. yes , i still take him as my real bestfriend eventhough this lately , i seldom spent my time with him but he is also busy with his robotic competition so i dont want to disturb his time.

as a human being , we need to understand each other. when we achieve the goal , i am sure , all of us will be happy.

p/s : before PMR , i always spend my time with him and we studied together like never before ! 

just sharing some stories,

Ey Asyraf.